The day of the gentleman is dead

Think about it, how often do you see a young man opening a car door for a women or paying for there days out. The truth is you don't anymore, and this is the problem, what happens to nice guys? We try our best to be what used to be seen as an attractive feature and monumentaly fail because we have got it totally wrong. Take one of my friends for example, his girlfriend pays for everything just because he can't be arsed to get the money out of a cash point, but she doen't care. So why should we bother being nice because it obviously doesnt work. Why don't we all act like complete pricks in the hope that we may eventually get a girlfriend. I for one couldn't do it, its not in me. So whats in store for me now, well i'll probably have to find someone who doesn't enjoy being spat on.

But then again in the words of Scroobius Pip, "even the nicest of guys have some nasty within them, you don't have to be backlit to be the villlan". So we have the choice, we can be that nice guy, that guy who always falls into the dreaded friend zone, me. Or you can be the kinda guy who doesn't really give a shit, the one that is a complete twat but always gets the girl. We could all do it if we wanted to, we have all got it in us. Its a choice see, loose your integrity and personality and your there. Let me get one thing straight though here, not everyone with a girlfriend is a prik, they may not be gentlemen but what they do works. Treat em' mean keep em' keen, its an oldie but it seems fitting.

I'm not trying to preach doom and gloom, but my luck is out. Reaching the friends zone with any person i'm interested in does knock my confidence for six. So for now i'll lay here writing this blog hoping that one day I won't be seen as just a friend, that one day I won't have to write this thing anymore because i will no longer be the Wong. I can't see this happening in the near future so watch this space. You don't have to be like me, i'm not willing to change, but you may be. So do it, save the world get the girl. I'll be here, as just a friend, not that i care its the only use for me.

Saying my goodbyes

Bradical Chase West